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A simple way to come back to yourself
Veröffentlicht am 20.10.2026 / 00:01
Imagine rowing peacefully across a lake when another boat suddenly crashes into yours. You're furious, until you turn around and discover the other boat is completely empty.
The collision hasn't changed, but your interpretation of it has.
Episode 295 explores the Empty Boat Theory, a philosophical idea associated with the Taoist tradition, and how it can help us respond differently to everyday frustrations.
When someone is rude, inconsiderate or disrespectful, we often assume their behaviour is intentional and personal. But what if we stopped automatically assigning blame or imagining the worst?
This doesn't mean ignoring genuine mistreatment or abandoning our boundaries. It means recognising that we have some choice in how much anger we carry forward.
Sometimes the easiest way to find peace is to imagine the boat is empty and let it drift away.